Tbh I hate your blog and most of the confessions posted on it. Everyone acts like "i can't do this" and shit and they can't be friends or bitch about users or suck their dicks. I'm just sick of this anonymous bullshit that causes drama between users - I hate when people make confessions like that too - seriously if you have a problem with someone say it to their face instead of posting it on a confession blog. it's not a confession - you're a pussy. I'm ok with you mod as a person but jfc.
I’m sorry you feel that way. Since you said you hate the blog already, I assume, there’s really nothing I can do to help or change your mind on that fact. (Short of closing the blog, and with 700+ followers and a steady stream of submissions, I don’t plan on doing that any time soon.)
I made this blog for two main reasons:
1.It’s fun, and people like confessions blogs.
2.There are many reasons why people want to say things anonymously in a confessions. For a lot of people, they DO have self-esteem issues about their UTAU, or their art, or whatever - and it can be therapeutic to just say to the world “Hey, I worry about whether my art/mixing/UTAU is good enough” through an anonymous venue. It’s like shouting off a cliff - getting your thoughts out can just help you feel better.
And as for complimenting users - or, as you call it, sucking their dicks - I fail to see how saying nice things about people anonymously is making the world a worse place. Some people may be too shy to say “Hey, *user*, your art is amazing!” to their face. Or maybe they just want to spread the love for that user - I know that if my name showed up in a nice confession, I’d be elated.
As for drama, the thing is - 50% of the submitted confessions I get never get published. If I really wanted let this blog be an avenue to cause drama (god I hate that word), then I’d just publish everything I get. But I don’t do that. I don’t publish confessions that say “I hate this person”, “This person sucks”, “This person isn’t talented.” Because that’s not what this blog is here for. I’ve said it since the beginning - this blog isn’t used as a place for people with grudges against each other to rant about how much they hate about each other.
It’s for people to get things off their chest and have fun.
That’s all I want to do with this blog.